Human Nature

Human Nature what is it?? 

Its a natural way a human how he/she thinks,feel and act.It may include emotions,desires and behaviours,it may also include good and bad traits like kindness,selfishness,love,anger,mercy,etc

Now you must be wondering the difference between Human nature and human behavior 

So, Human Nature

• Its an inborn traits and  instincts.

• The origin is naturally or biologically and it's     mostly constant 

•some examples are love,fear,desire to survive   etc 

• its common to all humans universally 

Now lets move on to Human Behaviour 

• These are actions and reactions of a person on a particular situation

•  Human behaviour is learned and influenced from environment/surrounding and it can change with time and situation 

• Some of the examples are talking,helping,lying,etc

•It may vary from person to person 

Nature of a human is partly predictable.

Every individual has its own nature.Nature to love Your self,nature of fear about any situation,they have desire to survive too.

"Like diamond shines in coal mines,

Lotus blooms in mud So as the nature"

 When you say,

“Like diamond shines in coal, lotus blooms in mud, so as the nature,”

It's expressing that something pure, beautiful, or valuable can emerge from something dark, rough, or impure — just like in human nature.Even though human nature can have flaws, from it can rise kindness, strength, and goodness just like a lotus from mud or a diamond from coal.

Human Nature is as complicated as human body just like the body is made up of many systems like muscles, nerves, and organs same like that  human nature is made up of emotions, instincts, thoughts, and behaviors. Both have many layers .Just as every body is unique, every person's nature is also different. And just like the body needs balance to stay healthy, human nature needs emotional and moral balance to function well.

Just like human body is physical mystery human nature is psychological and emotional mystery.

Human nature refers to the innate qualities, instincts, emotions, and drives shared by all humans. These include the urge to:

•Belong and connect

•Explore and grow

•Express emotions

•Compete and achieve

•Resist control

•Be understood and loved

In college, these natural instincts become visible and intense, as students face freedom, responsibilities, identity questions, and emotional ups and downs for the first time.

🔸 1. The Need for Belonging and Acceptance

One of the strongest parts of human nature is the desire to feel included.

🔍 In college:

Students look for friendship, connection, and identity in social groups.

They may alter their behavior or opinions just to feel accepted.

Fear of rejection can lead to social anxiety or isolation.

Example: A shy student starts drinking at parties to fit into a friend circle.

🧠 Why?

Because biologically and emotionally, humans are wired to live in groups. Loneliness feels unsafe and painful.

🔸 2. Search for Identity & Independence

College is the first time many young adults get to live without direct parental supervision. This triggers a natural desire for self-discovery.

🔍 In college:

Students explore who they are, what they believe, and what they want to become.

They question their upbringing, religion, career choices, and values.

Students may dress differently, speak more boldly, or even change majors.

Example: A commerce student switches to music after realizing her true passion.

🧠 Why?

Because human nature pushes us toward self-actualization — discovering and expressing our true self.

🔸 3. Curiosity and Risk-Taking

Humans are naturally curious beings. College offers a new world of experiences — academic, emotional, social, and even romantic.

🔍 In college:

Students try new hobbies, lifestyles, relationships, or substances.

Curiosity may lead to mistakes, but also growth.

Risk-taking is common: from falling in love to skipping exams.

Example: A student tries stand-up comedy or joins a protest, even if nervous.

🧠 Why?

Because growth happens outside comfort zones. The brain rewards novelty with dopamine — the “feel-good” chemical.

🔸 4. Emotional Intensity and Vulnerability

College students experience emotions more intensely than adults. This is natural, not weakness.

🔍 In college:

Students feel deep attachment, heartbreak, homesickness, or fear of failure.

Emotional triggers may lead to breakdowns, anxiety, or mood swings.

Expression may happen through journals, social media, art, or withdrawal.

Example: A student cries silently in hostel after getting low marks despite trying hard.

🧠 Why?

Because the prefrontal cortex (decision-making) is still developing. Hormones and life transitions add emotional weight.

🔸 5. Competitive Drive and Comparison

Humans have a natural instinct to compete – for survival, attention, or success.

🔍 In college:

Students compare grades, clothes, relationships, popularity, and even Instagram likes.

Some thrive under pressure; others crumble due to inferiority complex.

Comparison can motivate or damage self-esteem.

 Example: A student feels worthless after seeing a topper getting a job offer.

🧠 Why?

Because our brain constantly evaluates our status in the group. This comes from primitive survival instincts.

🔸 6. Rebellion and Questioning Authority

As part of growth, humans start challenging rules and norms.

🔍 In college:

Students may skip rules, argue with teachers, or question societal systems.

They may fight for causes like gender equality, mental health, or freedom of speech.

 Example: Organizing a protest against hostel curfews for girls.

🧠 Why?

Because rebellion is a natural phase in identity formation. It helps separate “who we are” from “what we were told to be.”

🔸 7. Compassion and Empathy

Human nature also includes a deep instinct for kindness.

🔍 In college:

Students listen, support, hug, help, and stand up for each other.

Emotional support becomes crucial in this vulnerable phase.

 Example: A roommate cooks food for her sick friend and helps her study.

🧠 Why?

Because we are social beings, wired to care for others — especially those in our community.

🔸 8. Fear of Failure and the Need for Approval

Even the most confident-looking students fear judgment, rejection, or failure.

🔍 In college:

Students may overwork themselves, cry alone, or hide mistakes.

Some seek constant validation from teachers, parents, or social media.

Example: Posting every achievement online to feel valued.

🧠 Why?

Because the brain is sensitive to reward and rejection – and college is full of both.

Summary 

Human Nature Instinct Behavior in College

Belonging Fitting in, socializing, avoiding loneliness

Independence Taking decisions, rebellion, expressing self

Curiosity Exploring ideas, fashion, friends, love, experiences

Emotion Mood swings, overthinking, heartbreak, joy

Competition Academic and social comparison, jealousy, achievement pressure

Rebellion Protests, rule-breaking, questioning teachers or norms

Compassion Caring for friends, emotional support, volunteering

Approval-seeking Craving praise, hiding failure, over-sharing on social Media

"College is not just about gaining degrees. It’s where human nature reveals itself – raw, real, and transforming."

In these years, we don’t just study subjects — we study ourselves and others. Understanding human nature in college helps us be kinder, wiser, and more aware of the journey we all are walking.