Human Behaviour

 Human Behaviour 

behaviour is how a person react, behave ,respond in different situations 

Types of behaviour are 

1.Innate 

2.Learned 

3.Emotional 

4.Social 

5.Cognitive 

But the type of behavior I found is only of 3 types:

1.Positive 

2. Negative 

3.Two-faced

1. Positive : The one who is always helpful,kind,respect u and others,honest,showing empathy.

Positive behavior is the behavior of a preson through which u get positive vibes 

2. Negative :The one who is jealous of u,rude to u ,lying ,cheating.

You can say a person who gives negative vibes 

3. Two-faced: These are the people who are friendly in front of others but speak bad behind others.

 I met different people from different places some were kind some rude to me,Some were helpful,some ignored ,some remembered me when they needed.Some ignored me but that was all I could tolerate so I stared behaving the same as they did.U must be thinking y I m sharing all these things but u can notice the positive and negative behaviour I mentioned above.

Many speakers says that if u travel the world u will find 8 out of 10 people who are negative and Two-faced.But I say that its all upon your behavior if u are positive to someone the person u are with he is positive to u too but if u aren't then expect the same.Sometimes if u take stand for yourself even then u became negative for people.Its hard to deal with everyone with a positive behavior and the same to expect everyone with a positive behavior.

I experienced it right because I found the same happening with me and one of my friend,I see this happening in my surrounding even u might have experienced this in your life too.Its a fact that u can not show your positive behavior to everyone u meet and u can't expect the same from them.There may be chances u are good to a person but the person in front of u isn't all that u have to do is just observe things calmly once u get to know about the persons behavior u can respond, react or behave as calm and cool as u can because I feel like staying away  from negative vibes will protect your mental peace.And its important toh be mentally healthy to deal with everything in life.

College is a transitional phase between school and adulthood. It brings freedom, responsibilities, challenges, and self-discovery  all of which influence how students behave.

🔹 Typical Human Behaviors in College:

1. Curiosity and Exploration

Students often explore new ideas, hobbies, beliefs, and even relationships.

They want to try new things – be it clubs, friendships, career paths, or personal styles.

“Let me try this – I might like it!”

Example: Joining dance clubs, sports, debates, or even exploring new fashion styles.

2. Peer Influence & Group Identity

Students may change their behavior to fit in with friends or classmates.

They form cliques or friend circles and often behave differently in groups vs. alone.

“Everyone’s doing it – I should too.”

Example: Attending parties, skipping lectures, or even group studying to stay connected.

3. Freedom-Seeking Behavior

College gives more independence than school.

Students may test boundaries: staying out late, dressing differently, or voicing bold opinions.

 “I have the right to choose now.”

Example: Moving out of home, taking personal decisions without parents.

4. Stress and Emotional Changes

College life brings academic pressure, relationship issues, career fears.

Students may show signs of anxiety, sadness, mood swings, or emotional distancing.

 “I’m overwhelmed but I don’t know how to ask for help.”

Example: Crying alone in hostel, overthinking, isolating from groups.

5. Love & Attraction

College is often the phase where students fall in love or experience attraction.

Behavior may include blushing, texting in class, jealousy, over-involvement, etc.

“They mean the world to me!”

Example: Spending more time with a partner, being distracted, or emotional ups & downs.

6. Academic Pressure & Competition

Students behave differently during exam times  anxious, silent, competitive.

Some become serious, while others may cheat, procrastinate, or give up.

“Will I pass? What if I fail?”

Example: Pulling all-nighters, crying over marks, or losing motivation.

7. Rebellion & Risk-Taking

Some students break rules or challenge authority — skipping classes, arguing with teachers.

Experimentation with alcohol, smoking, or relationships may also occur.

“Rules are meant to be broken!”

Example: Climbing hostel walls at night, fake attendance, lying at home.

8. Kindness & Maturity

Many students grow emotionally, start helping others, and become more mature.

Behaviors include volunteering, listening to friends, forgiving, and guiding juniors.

"Let’s help her — she’s new here.”

Example: Helping a friend through breakup, supporting during exams, comforting homesick juniors.

🔸 Behavior Varies Based on:

Upbringing

Environment

Culture

Friends

Mental health

Past experiences

Summary 

Positive Behaviors or Negative Behaviors

Helping others ,bullying or gossiping

Attending classes, skipping lectures

Managing time well or wasting time on phones/socials

Emotional support to friends or emotional manipulation

Standing up for values, peer pressure-based decisions

Learning from failures Blaming or giving up